Last night was our final night of Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University. If you and your significant other haven’t gone through it, I highly reccomend getting in on a class. It will make sure you are both on the same page, and even those of us who pay attention to this stuff (otherwise we wouldn’t be reading this blog) still can learn A LOT!
Anyway, at the end we tall up as a class how much we have saved, paid off, and avoided between now and the start of the class. My BF submitted the numbers for the two of us, which added up to around $14,000 in debt paid off. I was shocked! Mine wasn’t quite $3,000, and I knew he had a $7000 lump sum that was paid off from a friend paying him back some money he had loaned them. Still, we had done $14,000? I was shocked.
What was even more shocking though was that the class total was only around $40,000. This was for 25-ish people, and ours was a good third of that. Suddenly, I felt really bad, I felt like a slave driver. I’ve been pushing HARD on this, and we came in at 33% of the class total. Of course, that’s a good thing, that’s an AMAZING thing, but I need to step back and acknowlege that as well. He was making a lot more progress than I thought he was, and I was making less progress than I thought I was. I leaned over and said “WOW. I’m a slave driver huh?” And without hesitation, he said. “Yup.”
Yikes, that hurts. Very glad we have made that much progress, but we do still have a long way to go. Going to keep pounding away at it, cleaning out crap, and working on my love drawer. I have also comitted to getting my life insurance up to 10x my annual income by my next birthday.
But great wins are still great wins, and I need to stop and appreciate the progress. To my honey (who probably has no idea I have this blog), he has progressed leaps and bounds for us, and I’m very grateful for that.